9ice ex-wife, Toni Payne after giving relationship and marriage advice on
twitter yesterday decided to finally clear the air once and for all
about the rumours that she cheated on her ex-husband and father of her
son.
Toni who has been separated for four years from singer now turned
politician, 9ice in a post on her blog, yesterday, said she will say it
once and for all that she NEVER cheated on 9ice while their one year and
a half-year marriage lasted.
Toni & 9ice got married on July 17th 2008 and by January 2010, a
year and a half later, the marriage was over. There were several reports
at the time that she was caught cheating.
Read her post below:
To those who still believe I cheated on my ex. I am sorry to
disappoint you, I never cheated on my ex hubby. Its not who I am, it
will never be who I am. Tell yourself 1 million times, Toni Payne
cheated, it will never make it true. Nobody caught me in any lie, or in
any bad situation, nobody slept with anyone he was close to. Yall need
to put a full stop to that bullshit. Its old!.
Sometimes, men want their freedom, and the fact is you cant force
them to stay. Same goes for women. Everyone wont have a perfect
relationship, not everyone will stay married forever, we can only aspire
to. Even those that have been married 10 years and are busy judging
others, do you know your tomorrow? naaaa you sure don’t so curb it abeg.
We can only pray, work, and hope for a good union.
Anyways To address this my ex said this or that issue. Let me
just say He has NEVER for once opened his mouth to accuse me of
cheating. He has NEVER for once opened his mouth to accuse me of
sleeping with anyone he knows. If awon alaiye baje wanna use our
situation then to sell their crap, how is that my fault? The same media
controlling the remote to say I think cheating is ok, are the same who
controlled the remote back then to say his song was about me. Nobody
ever called him to verify or ask before publishing. Ill admit that we
both did not handle the situation well back then, It was the first time
we would experience such. The tension was plenty and emotions were
everywhere.
We should have sorted it privately. which we did try to do but
one rubbish headline and emotions go buckwild again. I don’t wanna
sounding like I am defending him, cos he is responsible for himself, but
in all fairness to him, and because I have a conscience that serves me
well, not for once did he tweet, fb, email, interview anything of the
sort. Our issues had absolutely nothing to do with what the media were
speculating. People took a song he did and turned it upside down. My
crew MIXED AND MASTERED the song. If it was about me, why would I allow
him release it. God gave all of us sense naa.. Some just chose not to
use theirs and chose to believe anything they read even when the facts
are there to sort through.
The only thing I have blamed him for, was not coming out on time to
refute the claims and allowing it to escalate to that level, he has
since apologized SEVERALLY, we have discussed it privately as we should
have from the jump. I have accepted and moved on. I have also apologized
for losing my cool on twitter, he has since accepted and moved on.
Really, what more is there. I am not sure what people want from me.
Should I hate him forever? Should I tie him to a post and flog him
mercilessly? Should I be a wicked person and deprive him of his son? If I
remain bitter and upset, please what value will it add to my life?
Wo, my life is much more simpler than all this. Those who know me
well, know this. Those that dont understand me are the ones who will be
forever outside looking in, speculating crap. I am truly tired of this
topic but since it seems to keep popping up, i felt it is best to
finally address it properly. If anyone decides to hang on to the lie
after this, that is their own cup of tea. I have a talk show to record,
poetry to write and a child to raise. I don talk my own. FIN!.
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